Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Rockin' Green athletic laundry detergent: a review.

I tried out a new laundry soap recently and want to tell you about it...

It's called Rockin' Green and it was created by this lady Kim.  She has 3 kids, so she knows about being on a budget, but she also wanted an environmentally friendly product that actually killed stains and dirt.

Rockin' Green is:

    Biodegradable and made from recycled materials
    Uses recyclable packaging
    Uses no animal products or gluten
    SLS- and Parabens-Free
    Free of optical brighteners and bleach

Rockin’ Green was created for the most sensitive skin (great for babies!) and is made from distillations of natural essential oils.

I received 5 packets of laundry detergent powder, each enough for two loads, and used them all up in a week, no surprise considering the amount of laundry I do.

The soap has barely any fragrance, a light fresh herbal sniff and that's it.  It's a plain white powder and it appeared to dissolve well in the washer.   I didn't do it the smart way (dissolve in the water first, then add clothes) but instead put the gis in, turned on the water, and poured the powder on top.  Seemed fine, even with black gis-- no clumping or residue.

The knees of my white gis did seem less dingy, and old rashguards washed in this soap didn't "revert" to a funk smell once they got wet again (as so often happens at the start of a class, where you KNOW you haven't gotten stinky yet.) There was no difficulty removing a few little spots of blood here and there. I usually use the laundry softener that leave my clothes scented "April Fresh" or whatever-- but this is a great soap to use before that stage of the wash.  They do have some scented ones though-- watermelon and lavender-mint-- which I think I'll try out.

The company also makes lots of other green products-- dishwasher soap, a coming-soon surface cleaner, several types of laundry detergent including one for hard water, ones designed for funky athletic gear, odor neutralizer sprays (on clearance!) and even pet bed soap and stinky pet cleaner.  The website offers free shipping for orders over $100.  A 3.2lb bag is just under $18, and ONE BAG can do up to 90 loads? HE machine users need only 1 TBS of soap per load...that comes out to only about 19¢ per load!

They also have a rewards program, so the more you buy, the more discounts you get on future purchases.  I recommend them highly :)

Friday, March 20, 2015

So excited about my Aesthetic Zero gi...

Disclaimer-- this is not a traditional review, I couldn't wait to wash and wear this sucker, so I didn't take shrinkage measurements, sorry!

Most of the time I don't buy gis unless they're vintage/used on ebay or facebook.  It just gets too expensive, and I already have twenty-something.  It's hard to justify.  I'm delighted to review gis (and then I usually give them to charity or a poor kid starting out.) But buying brand new gis for myself is a tough sell.

Last gi(s) I bought brand new were two gorgeous DFKC gis (Da Firma Kimono Co) and I sold them almost immediately on ebay.  Why?  Because they were super low-rise pants (on my too-full derriere) and the crotch gusset was made of the same thick weave as the jacket, which bunched up between my thighs and made me feel like I was wearing a diaper.  A full diaper.  Not good.

So I rather shame-facedly ordered this Aesthetic "Whiteout" lightweight gi while watching the Pan livestream.  I think it came up because I asked what gi someone was wearing, and my teammate Alex Glavin pointed me towards Aesthetic... I liked something really special about it.  The embroidery of the name is reversible!

Look-- here on the leg.  It says Aesthetic one way, and Jiujitsu the other!  You'll see it more clearly on some of the other photos.

  • 350 GSM Premium Pearl jacket
  • Ripstop pants
  • Sublimated interior trim
  • Double-layered cuff taping
  • IBJJF approved
  • Includes carry bag
The "White Out" is a lightweight Jiu Jitsu Gi that doesn't sacrifice quality or durability, featuring their 350 GSM Premium Pearl weave and super comfy ripstop pants. A great Gi choice for competition or for daily training, teaching, etc. Throughout the top and bottom, all logos are embroidered in white, on white, for a unique and clean look.
The new and improved pants are, simply put, outstanding. Cut and stitched to maximize your movement and comfort while keeping excess fabric to a minimum. Shrinkage is also reduced when compared to previous Aesthetic designs. Other specs include full-length knee reinforcements, multiple drawstring loops, and a round stretch drawstring.
- See more at:

  • 350 GSM Premium Pearl jacket
  • Ripstop pants
  • Sublimated interior trim
  • Double-layered cuff taping
  • IBJJF approved
  • Includes carry bag
The "White Out" is a lightweight Jiu Jitsu Gi that doesn't sacrifice quality or durability, featuring their 350 GSM Premium Pearl weave and super comfy ripstop pants. A great Gi choice for competition or for daily training, teaching, etc. Throughout the top and bottom, all logos are embroidered in white, on white, for a unique and clean look.
The new and improved pants are, simply put, outstanding. Cut and stitched to maximize your movement and comfort while keeping excess fabric to a minimum. Shrinkage is also reduced when compared to previous Aesthetic designs. Other specs include full-length knee reinforcements, multiple drawstring loops, and a round stretch drawstring.
- See more at:
I screwed up and let the string get pulled all the way through but that's easily fixed.  Anyway, I like the waist loop placement.  One bonus, this gi comes with two pairs of pants.  One nice soft twill pair (here) and one super light ripstop pair.  They have a double layer of knee reinforcement that goes midthigh to ankle all the way.

I'll be honest, I think I have been wearing the wrong size gi forever.  I am not an A1.  I am an A0.  I'm almost the heaviest I've ever been (140) and the ripstop pants are a little small on me for comfort, but the twill pants were fine especially after I squatted in them to teach them who's boss. But the gi top is not too long or too baggy, whereas most A1s are.  I just instinctively assumed my bottom half would be too big for an A0.  I wonder if Aesthetic (which is based in the UK) would consider selling them separately? But anyway...

Also I really like that the crotch fabric-- although gi top weave-- in no way possible feels diaper-ish.

This is the embroidery on the back of the collar.   Very low key and subtle.  The collar is incredibly stiff out of the bag (I'll photograph the bag later when I add pics of me in the gi because the bag is also super cool) and even after two washes and dries, it's still impressive.  It's covered in ripstop and feels very substantial.


 I uploaded the pictures from my phone and they're wonky, upside down, sideways, sorry.

Here's the interior bottom of the jacket, two nice contrasting patterns in the reinforcement and seam taping.  Not scratchy, at all. It's little touches that show attention to detail.

I really should re-upload, sorry.  This lining isn't exactly rashguard material, it's not stretchy, but it's mostly for looks anyway I think because it does not extend very far across the shoulders.

The gi top is SUPER light though, and does not stretch when wet and under tension unlike the Vulkan Ultralight.  I will weigh the gi and pants and get back to you with that data. The website says the top is 350gsm pearl weave.  It's delightful to the touch.

Embroidery on the top of the shoulder, as you look at the person...

And the same embroidery, upside down.  SO COOL.  I am enthralled.

So, I am super happy with this gi, and had to tell you about it.  

 This gi is 99 British pounds ($147US) and shipping was another $23 to Seattle. Moderately pricey, for me, but I say well worth it considering two pairs of pants plus the cute bag in which I will be toting stuff to class, seminars etc. 

The Whiteout is available here on their website with free shipping for UK customers, and they also point out it's available to US customers from two other sources (which I didn't even check on, like an idiot, so maybe my shipping could have been cheaper! but I was watching Leandro Lo killing people at the Pan so give me a break.)

If you buy it through as suggested, it's $149.99 with only ripstop pants, and free two-day-air shipping.

If you buy through as suggested, it's also $149.99 with only ripstop pants and free two-day shipping, but they offer custom embroidery for $9.99 and adding a patch for $9.99.  I have not looked into those options... anyone, anyone? The nice thing I can see about is they have a 60 day return policy that allows you to train and roll and wash and dry for two months and still return it!

Friday, February 13, 2015

Redline BJJ instructor jailed in Oklahoma for child sex offenses

Whitney Fetters, a BJJ instructor at Redline BJJ in Edmond Oklahoma, faces charges for soliciting sexual contact with a minor among others. I wrote an article about it for Bloody Elbow today.

Yesterday, Redline BJJ made this statement on their facebook page-- kudos...

"We have been waiting on an arrest to make an official statement. Now that Whitney has turned herself in we can speak about it.

We are very saddened and shocked as anyone else. No one could have predicted anything like this happening.

The Gracie Academy runs extensive background checks on every person attempting to get certified. She was no exception.

In Winter 2013 & Spring 2014 Whitney Fetters attempted to be an Instructor at Redline. She attended the ICP camps at the Gracie Academy January 2014, but she never quite made the grade.

In the summer of 2014 Whitney went MIA from Redline & no one saw her in or outside of Redline in over 8 months prior to January 2015 in which Whitney attended a few classes stating she was starting over fresh as a student.

We take situations like this very serious. Our students safety is our number 1 concern in every aspect. Unfortunately, Whitney will no longer be allowed to visit or train at Redline.

She's only assisted a few kids classes in the past (spring 2014), but hasn't been an instructor of any kind at our facility in over 8 months.

This incident did not take place at Redline & we have no connection to the boy or his family. We give our deepest condolences to him, his & her family, & everyone affected.

We are deeply saddened & shocked just like the rest of the jiu-jitsu community, but we know this shall pass.

We really appreciate those of you in the jiu-jitsu community that have reached out to us in this situation with love & understanding.

Huge Thanks to those of you that have sent kind words & support during this time.

-The Redline Team"

Tuesday, February 03, 2015

Rolling with cups...

Paul posted a question as a comment and I thought it merited its own post:

"I've got a weird question for you.

What are your thoughts on men wearing cups?

I was rolling tonight and I noticed my partners cup as I went to pass his guard. Like, I thumped up against it and it kind of blocked my knee (without it I wouldn't have thumped his junk but I may have passed his guard). I'm pretty damned new to all of this, and I'm sure I can adjust to that sort of thing, but it did seem to sort of interrupt the flow. Moreso than the occasional indelicate moment which can be ignored, or if need be apologized for.

No big deal, but I wondered how you feel in regards to men wearing cups. I can imagine running into a guy wearing a cup and how it changes the roll, perhaps good and bad.

I don't wear one, but maybe I will at some point.

I feel a woman who has the experience you do might be able to talk about how they affect your roll in ways that a man might not."

My first thought was, I wonder why he thinks a woman would have a different reaction to rolling with a cup-wearer than a man would? But then I reconsidered... maybe a cup could be viewed as a considerate way of putting one more layer of "stuff" between someone's stuff and my body?

But no, in my opinion, cups are unnecessary (for that reason at least) and worse, they are miserable for me to deal with on an opponent.  They make it much much easier to finish an armbar for example, and it's partly for this reason that they are not legal equipment in IBJJF tournaments among others.  If you can't wear it in competition, you shouldn't be practicing with it.

Now, not possessing balls, you might think it's pretty ballsy of me to say you don't need a cup in jiu jitsu... but here's why I have this opinion.  Yes, I've had maybe 2-3 rolls (over about 6 years of training) where my foot slipped off a hip and grazed someone's privates.  I've honestly truly never done a knee-through pass and had any shin/knee-and-groin connection.  And I mean grazed, as in glanced, maybe caused a wince, but not connected with/struck/slammed/pushed etc.

On the other hand, I have been armbarred many, many times.  I've been kneebarred a few times, too.  I have been triangle choked and on the bottom of north-south and even had people take my back.  In every one of these circumstances, I would have potentially suffered a great deal more pain and discomfort from someone wearing a cup.

When I am rolling, I am not aware of someone's privates except insofar as I need to keep my hands, feet, knees, and other bits from using that one area of their body for leverage.  If they're sitting on my face to finish a kimura, the last thing I am thinking about is their testicles.  But, if I feel someone wearing a cup during a roll?  depending on how I discover this, I will continue the roll and then gracefully decline another (and explain why) or I will stop in the middle and not continue. 

So, the bottom line: please do not wear a cup.

Other people have written on this topic, too:
Jiu Jitsu Sweep

Sunday, January 25, 2015

What's up...

Well, my academy up here in Edmonds just hosted Darren Branch (aka Keebler) for a few days of training.. what a great experience.  He's exciting and fun, detailed and analytical, and so mellow and easy-going.  Deeply grateful for all the time and energy he gave to us!

I filmed this ;)

I'm hunkering down and grinding out a big work deadline for early April.  That is considerably less fun... but very necessary.

I'm supervising two investigations for Bullshido.  Waiting on developments in the Nelson Monteiro story (the DA is investigating further) and another California domestic-assault case is on my radar too... getting the arrest report asap and then I can tell you all about it.

I have been pretty blue lately.  I am enjoying my training, but not enjoying the quiet time in the late evening.  So I'm reading a lot, particularly poetry.  Here is some Rumi.. please enjoy.

Those tender words we said to one another
Are stored in the secret heart of heaven.
One day, like the rain, they will fall and spread
And their mystery will grow green over the world.


Friday, January 16, 2015

When your student/teammate is assaulted by another in your school/team... how will you react?

 I'd like to share someone's experience, which was sent to me on the condition that I post it anonymously.  She hopes this will prompt some thought and reflection.  Without further ado:

"This story is not about poor me, I got assaulted by my abusive boyfriend. This story is about the misbelief, the “so what” and the “why didn’t you go to the police?” attitude I was given by our common jiu jitsu friends and colleagues.

The bjj world is no exception to the rest of the world’s motto “she is a woman, she deserved it”; Misogyny.

It is true, my friends had warned me about his guy. They said he was a narcissist, a bigot, a psychopath. They said I should keep away but I wouldn’t listen. As the months passed by and his behavior escalated from being controlling, coercing, paranoid and verbally abusive to physically abusive, and one day he attacked me and left me with bruises on the face and ribs, then I should have known better. It was all my fault. I let it happen.

This was the response of my first bjj instructor when I confided in him what happened to me. That bjj instructor said he knew us both and he couldn’t take sides. He reminded me that he had warned me to break up with him but I wouldn’t listen. He also added that he thought my injuries were not that serious.

That was my first bjj instructor who I considered a friend until that day, and his school was in a different city (My “boyfriend” and I had met in that school a few years back.  Then moved to a new school, in another city).

The new bjj school, where we were training the time of the assault, had two instructors. I didn’t say anything to them for a month or two. I didn’t train until all the bruises were gone.

One of the two bjj instructors asked me why I didn’t go to the police. I stood there, in front of him, trying to explain that I was embarrassed and scared and in denial. I had believed that this man loved me and I could not accommodate that he had assaulted me.  I couldn’t go to the police because I was afraid of him. I can say it now. The bjj instructor replied I should have gone to the police and that he didn’t wish to interfere with my personal affairs.

I thought of changing schools to avoid the “boyfriend” but I felt it wasn’t fair that I would have to leave, since it was he who assaulted me. I sucked it up and started training again, with the plan to avoid and ignore the “boyfriend,” if met in class. My close teammates thought it was a good plan.

I avoided him by declining the social invitations he was accepting. But then he came to my corner during a competition and tried to blend in coaching me, and went back to his other subtle attempts which I would no longer fall for.  And then he started being disrespectful to me during class.  At that time, he sent me a threatening text on my phone.  I felt panic and told the other bjj instructor everything. He was more empathetic. He talked to the other instructor and they mutually decided to expel “the boyfriend.” I was grateful and relieved.

Only a few people knew about him assaulting me. One of them was a friend in a nearby bjj school. My friend warned her instructor about the “boyfriend” but this instructor thought he deserved another chance so he allowed him to train there. After all, I hadn’t gone to the police, which meant I was probably either lying or exaggerating about the assault. I also heard it said that he was much stronger than me, and he could have killed me if he wanted, therefore, when he assaulted me, he was just trying to put me in my place, you know, male nature and all; I must have misunderstood.

A few days ago I found out that the “boyfriend” was recently promoted to black belt and is now an instructor at a bjj school.


Society is so accustomed to men physically abusing and assaulting their partners that the weird thing is to object it and make a fuss about it.

(Perhaps if I had seriously fought back, he would have gotten even madder and hurt me further; of course it is my fault I just walked away and didn't help provide better evidence. I apologize.)"

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Review: BJJ Globetrotter travel gi

So this is the BJJGlobetrotter travel gi I was given to review by that master traveller, Carlson black belt Christian Graugart.  He runs an academy in Denmark and blogs at ShogunHQ.

Christian went on a round-the-world training trip in 2011 and wrote a blog, then a book, about his experiences.  Here's a two-part interview he did with JitsMagazine...

What could be more natural than to make a gi specially designed for travel and training?  It's not the first such (Kauai Kimonos makes a great one and did a custom version for Christian's trip, I have heard that Gorilla Gis makes one too) but it has some nice touches and I am excited to report back to you about this gi.  Right now it's available at an introductory price of US$149 on his Globetrotters shop site.

Forgive my selfies in the mirror at my friends' academy-- the guys were too busy rolling nogi to help a sister out! So any smears you see are actually on the mirror (leftovers from writing drilling plans in marker.)

This super light-weight (2.4lbs) gi is available in royal blue or a medium gray.  For reference I'm 5'2" 140 lbs, 36-28-38 and this is an A1, after one hot wash and one hot dry. 


You can see the pants and jacket are a tad long and the body a bit baggy on my short frame.  The sleeves are okay in length.

Let's talk shrinkage while we're at it. This little chart originated from Flowroller Designs and until I looked at their page I had no idea they have a used gi buy/sell program AND a donate-your-gi program you should look into!

Anyway--  here's the diagram with my alterations to reflect the measurements I made....

Before and after a hot machine wash and dry, in inches, measurements made while gi is laid flat. Not much shrinkage.

Jacket A cuff to cuff across shoulders Before 63"  After 61"
Jacket B length neck to hem  Before 29.75" After 29"
Jacket C sleeve length under arm Before 20.5"  After 19.75

Pants E length, front waist to bottom hem Before 37.5"  After 36.5"
Pants H waist width  Before 20"  After 19.75"
Pants I front rise  Before 13.5"  After 12.5"

You can check out the Globetrotter sizing chart and diagram here.

The gi is made of a very comfortable, light but sturdy ripstop material.  It's very well made, and I didn't see any bobbles in the stitching.  Note that it is not IBJJF-competition legal (the jacket is ripstop, and the pants have a patch too close to the bottom hem.)  But it will airdry in a jiffy, and it packs down to just about nothing in your bag so it is an ideal travel gi.


The patch on the front of the jacket is sewn on impeccably.  It's not embroidered; it seems to be dye sublimated, not painted, so shouldn't flake or crack.  The emblem on the right bicep is embroidered into the fabric with tight even stitches.

There are numerous nice little touches. For instance inside the right front of the gi top, there are happy little birds flying (painted onto the fabric, but a low-wear area so they should last a while.) (good reinforcements on the stress points, and attractive white trim, too.)

When you turn the gi around you see this incredible trim along the bottom hem of the jacket.

It's embroidery onto the actual fabric, not tape sewn on, and very beautifully done with ornate detail. 

The emblem stitched just under the back of the collar is attractive and simple.

The ripstop is 100% cotton so I have confidence this gi will continue to shrink a little bit if I keep washing and drying on hot.

One nice aspect of this otherwise unisex gi is the difference in rise between front and back of the pants... this gives a little extra space for junk in the trunk without being high-waisted in the front.  The white hits are appealing.  Four belt loops get the job done, and the cord is smooth round woven string, not much stretch but (for my money) superior to flat-stitched fabric which always gets twisted up.  The cord is long enough to tie a square knot or a bow, but not so long that the tails hang out and get pulled on.

The emblem on the front bottom of the pants is embroidered into the material, not a patch.  The tape sewn into the cuffs on jacket and pants interior is smooth and not abrasive or scratchy; it repeats the ocean wave pattern and the Globetrotters logo in black and shades of grey.

The additional layer over the knees extends to the mid- to lower-shin area.

All in all, a very comfortable gi not just in terms of weight and packing size, but also when training.  It is such thin material you might worry about durability, but having trained for years in ripstop gis, I can tell you it's unrippable and as tough as parachute fabric.  In hot weather this gi is a blessing.  In addition, the ripstop material helps your hip movement; you'll just glide over the mat.

The gi comes with a free e-book copy of Christian's book, free worldwide shipping and a LIFETIME 100% money-back guarantee. He's also got a VERY nice looking pearl-weave gi, with a sublimated rashguard lining in the jacket, available in black or white.  It's a little more expensive but it looks quite worth it.

Monday, January 12, 2015

Issues with background check policies

Two years after the New Year's Eve 2013 rape, in the wake of the Team Lloyd Irvin rape and cult scandals, the Yakima rape, the Aldo Batista rape, the Daryell Xavier rape/murder, the Gregorio Rivera charges, and others, the IBJJF recently announced a background check policy.

It's not the first time a major jiu jitsu organization has claimed to institute such a policy.  Back in June 2013, I discovered that an Austin TX jiu jitsu instructor was a registered sex offender who raped a woman while she was unconscious. The RCJ Machado organization immediately cut all ties with him and announced a new plan to conduct mandatory background checks on staff and instructors.

One version of the Machado announcement is here on the Carlos Machado facebook page, dated July 1, 2013. 

 Another version that Rigan Machado posted on facebook was reported on my blog and the MMAUnderground forum by Ray Elbe:

I invited the RCJ Machado organization to update me about the process, and progress, of their mandatory background check policy.

On January 10, 2015, I received the following email:

"Ms. Oden,
I understand that you're interested in talking with us about our policies regarding instructors and association members. I regret to inform you that at this time we cannot make any statements regarding such matters since our organization's restructuring is in its infancy. Many of the policies are currently being created and we would rather not speculate when answering questions regarding such important topics. With this being said, you're well respected when it comes to the way women are treated in the martial arts community and could probably lend some valuable insight as we shape our guidelines for the association (and eventually, academy) policy manual. Thank you for your understanding,
J. Daniel Beluska
RCJ Machado Jiu Jitsu Association"

This is terribly disappointing.  It's been a year and a half.  I smell bullshit, but, I hope I am wrong and I hope they share with me some background check policy that used to be in place for that whole time (including details and what staff or instructors were removed as a result) and how they plan on changing it.

I also plan on blogging about any academies or affiliations which have background check policies.  I know Bruno Bastos' academy in Midland TX has one and I'm writing about it presently.  Other affiliations, please let me know if I should highlight the efforts you're making to protect your school and students.  I have some suggestions for how to write, implement and enforce a background check policy here.

What exactly does the IBJJF background check policy say?  It's found here:

It applies to

"Black Belt Certificate applicants that reside in the US  (first application and renewal).
Professors and instructors who apply for an academy registration with USBJJF (first application and renewal)."

What does this mean?  It appears to mean
  • black belts who are applying to become members of IBJJF
  • black belts who are applying to renew their IBJJF membership
  • who live in the United States (the policy does not say anything about their citizenship status, only their residency, and thus if you live outside the U.S. you're exempt.)
  • Professors and instructors without regard to belt level who apply to register their academies with the USBJJF
But also note that in the later part of the explanation it says "A person should be disqualified and prohibited from serving as a volunteer/professor/certified Black Belt if ..."

So if you fail a background check it would appear that you cannot teach at an IBJJF-member academy, you cannot be certified as a black belt with the IBJJF, and you cannot volunteer for the IBJJF. 
"You can apply for your background check online through the SSCI website. You will need to provide your full name, date of birth, address, SSN or other form of identification."  

The SSCI company does background checks for other sports organizations and appears to be legit.

What offenses or history would be problematic?

"A person should be disqualified and prohibited from serving as a volunteer/professor/certified Black Belt if the person has been found guilty of the following crimes:

For purposes of this policy; Guilty shall mean that a person was found guilty following a trial, entered a guilty plea, entered a no contest plea accompanied by a court finding of guilt (regardless of adjudication), or received court directed programs in lieu of conviction.

SEX OFFENSES• All Sex Offenses – Regardless of the amount of time since offense.
Examples include: child molestation, rape, sexual assault, sexual battery, sodomy, prostitution, solicitation, indecent exposure, etc.
FELONIES• All Felony Violence – Regardless of the amount of time since offense.
Examples include: murder, manslaughter, aggravated assault, kidnapping, robbery, aggravated burglary, etc.
• All Felony offenses other than violence or sex within the past 10 years.
Examples include: drug offenses, theft, embezzlement, fraud, child endangerment, etc.
PENDING CASES• Individuals found to have pending court cases for any of the disqualifying offenses will be disqualified. If the disposition of the pending case does not meet the criteria for the disqualification as listed above, the individual would then be cleared and reinstated."

Well and good.  But when a Gracie Barra black belt friend of mine had to renew his black belt card, after the announcement of this policy, they did not require a background check! I'm told this is because of a loophole big enough to drive a truck through... your black belt membership card does not require background checking. Only your black belt CERTIFICATION.

His first email to the IBJJF:

I just renewed my black belt membership, and I was under the impression that I would be required to provide a background check as well. I was not asked during the process for this. Is this going to be a problem at some point?
Thank you,

Their reply:

From: "Membership 00 IBJJF" <>
Date: Jan 6, 2015 4:33 PM
Subject: Re: Membership renewal #xxxxx
To: <>
Dear Athlete,

Thank you for contacting IBJJF.

The background check for black belts is primarily for those who are 1) applying for black belt certification (new or renewal) or 2) those who are registering an academy (new or renewal).
If you are not currently applying for certification or academy registration then you do not need to worry about completing the background check at this time.

Best Regards,
IBJJF Membership Staff


So, apparently, the Brazinglish strikes again. Can anyone tell me if they've ever had to renew their black belt certification, versus their membership?

Sunday, January 04, 2015

"Level Ground" campaign to help underprivileged kids in Boston

Alexandra Fuller in Boston is the founder and Executive Director of Level Ground Mixed Martial Arts.  She teaches Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai to empower urban youth in Boston. 

In her words, "Our youth live in the neighborhoods of Boston that experience the highest levels of poverty, violence, and disparities in health and education.  Through these sports, we create an awesome community for kids and young adults, getting them off the streets and into the gym!"

Level Ground is running a "15 in 15" Indiegogo campaign, and they're just about $4000 short of raising $15k in 2015 for a number of projects, including professional development and mentorship, college readiness through tutoring and case management, youth employment, and monthly competition opportunities. Level Ground MMA is a fiscally-sponsored organization by the Black Ministerial Alliance.  All donations are tax deductible, and donors will receive a tax-receipt upon request.

The $15,000 will be distributed as follows-

1) Provide quality college readiness programming to 50 youth ($2,000)
2) Link 20 youth to professional mentors ($1,500)
3) Offer in-house employment to 2 additional youth ($7,500)
4) Expand athletic training to 120 youth ($2,000)
5) Sponsor a traveling team of 15 youth to compete in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu on a monthly basis ($2,000)

In memory of Tyler Keene, a friend and BJJ purple belt, Level Ground will open the 'Tyler Keene Athletic and Academic Training Center' in the Winter of 2015.  Funds in excess of $15,000 will go towards this studio.

This studio will provide the following opportunities for youth:
  • BJJ and MMA training.
  • Professional mentorship from employers in the community.
  • Daily academic and career support, with access to our community college, 4-year university, trade school, and workforce development network.
  • Daily training in life skills, with an emphasis on nutrition and food preparation, physical and mental health and wellness.
It will also host community classes for adults to broaden their impact in Boston's urban neighborhoods.  Adults will have access to premier training in MMA and healthy living at a discounted rate.
Since being founded only 15 months ago, Level Ground has:

    Expanded to 4 sites, representing over 100 youth served on a weekly basis
    Directly linked 100% of graduating high school students with the opportunity to earn a college degree at Northeastern University
    Extended in-house employment opportunities to 5 youth through our Program “Assistantship” where they receive experience in management and leadership
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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Gracie Barra 6th degree blackbelt Nelson Monteiro accused of felony domestic violence

This is Danielle Martin, a new black belt and longtime instructor out at Gracie Barra Encinitas (California.) Like many instructors, she is an ambassador for her academy and the sport, teaching groups from Girl Scout troops to corporate seminars, women's classes, self defense, and children's classes.

On November 15, 2014, she received her black belt.  This is an honor most jiu jitsu players dream of.

She was promoted to faixa preta by Nelson Monteiro, a 6th degree black belt with whom she used to have a romantic relationship. Her promotion to black belt was marred that night, when Monteiro also allegedly punched her in the face and head numerous times and drove off with her half in, half out of his SUV, dragging her several feet down the road.

That night....

Excuse my amateur redaction of address etc.

Two gentlemen friends of Martin's waited with her in the parking lot until the deputies arrived.  At least one of them has allegedly been threatened by Monteiro not to speak against him, although this has not yet been confirmed by me personally.  Because the deputies did not witness the assault, and because Monteiro avoided returning home that evening, Monteiro was not arrested at the time.  The case and photographs have been turned over to the prosecuting attorney in Encinitas (near San Diego.)

The usual process of filing criminal charges in California is outlined here.  A common misconception is that when a crime occurs that is later reported to law enforcement, police stop what they're doing and rush out to arrest right away.  In fact, many times the prosecutors will take the case to a grand jury and get indictments in felony cases, before any arrests take place.

Some days after the assault:

The detective on the case indicates that Monteiro claims to be the victim, and asked him through his attorney to provide photos or evidence of Monteiro being assaulted.

At this time, no such photographs or evidence have been provided to law enforcement, either by Monteiro or by his attorney, contrary to Monteiro's claims (below.)  In fact, the detective delayed filing the case with the prosecutor's office for days, waiting for any such information, but none was forthcoming.

The officer photographed Martin's hands that night, and indicates that she had no apparent marks that would be expected if she assaulted someone else.  No finger-mark or grab-type bruising on her arms. As you would imagine, her nails are so short as to be nonexistent.

Ten days later, Monteiro's business partner and co-owner of GB Encinitas, Rafael Ramos, instructed Monteiro and Martin to stop participating in academy events:

From: Rafael Ramos
Subject: GB Encinitas
Date: November 26, 2014 at 9:53:39 PM PST
To: Nelson Monteiro , Danielle Martin

Nelson and Danielle,

in light of the recent events, we believe its best for you to cease your activities as a member of Gracie Barra Encinitas.

This administrative decision has been made believing it is the best for our school, students and Gracie Barra while the situation follows its course.

The school is grateful for all levels of your involvement in the past and please understand, this is not a permanent decision.


Rafael Ramos

Gracie Barra
"Organized like a Team, fighting like a Family!"

But that has not been enforced.  Individuals at that academy allege that Monteiro attended both the instructors' dinner and the holiday party. (Martin did not.) Also, as mentioned above, some report that he has taken steps to encourage/intimidate people to take his side, or to remain silent if they cannot.

I've communicated with Flavio Almeida, one of the "head honchos" of Gracie Barra, about this incident.  He indicated that it was inappropriate if Monteiro was still participating in academy life, and facilitated me getting in touch with Monteiro and Ramos.

Monteiro's response to me was very polite:

  Hi Georgette,

Hope you are doing well. Me and Danielle Martin have very views of an incident. Please understand that at this point i do not intend to get involved in a public argument about it. I have provided information to the Sheriff's department, including photographs of  my injuries, that show that i have not done anything wrong or illegal. About the school, Rafael is sending you an e-mail soon.

Keep training, hope you get your black belt one day, best regards,

Nelson Monteiro

Email from the detective on the case denies that any information was provided by Monteiro or his attorney.

Ramos' reply to me was also very polite:

Hi Georgette,

below is a message that i sent to Nelson and Danielle in the name of Gracie Barra Encinitas.

Until all the facts are analyzed by someone with the capacity to do so , i think everyone should stay unbiased and not take sides, since the versions are so different.

Message sent to them below:

"In light of the recent events, we believe its best for you to cease your activities as a member of Gracie Barra Encinitas.

This administrative decision has been made believing it is the best for our school, students and Gracie Barra while the situation follows its course.

The school is grateful for all levels of your involvement in the past and please understand, this is not a permanent decision."



Sent from my iPhone

Why, then, am I writing this post-- when, as Rafael Ramos points out, the versions of events are so different?  Should I not stay silent and wait for the courts to do their thing?

As Ferguson, Garner, and the NYE rapes in DC showed, sometimes even events on videotape do not result in criminal charges and when they do, sometimes no conviction.  The jury does not decide innocence... the jury decides whether the prosecutors have met their burden of proof beyond a reasonable doubt.  And, too, the justice system is a slow beast.

I hate thinking about a person who, like many of us, finds comfort, social support, intellectual stimulation and fun in jiu jitsu being denied those things at a time when she may need it most-- only to discover that her alleged assailant is enjoying it with the tacit approval of his business partner, and then allegedly pronouncing to all and sundry that she is a liar because he hasn't been arrested yet.  That's not how it works, and I seek to educate the people who may read this blog.

I don't pretend to know what happened the night Martin got her black belt, because (although I offered) I have not seen any photographs of alleged injuries suffered by Monteiro.  I have only seen one side of the story.  But the side I've seen so far is pretty ugly. 

Looking at the offense report, we see she's a very slender 136 lbs at 5'10" tall... he's got at least forty pounds on her.  Not to mention that he is a freaking sixth-degree black belt.

A healthy, male, sixth-degree black belt in Brazilian jiu jitsu should be able to defend himself and restrain a smaller female of lesser rank without beating the crap out of her.

If I were researching a school, looking for self-defense instruction, high-level technique, or even a nice teacher, and I read this... I might have second thoughts about learning from this guy Monteiro.  I mean, really-- if you can't exercise technique and judgment sufficiently? and (assuming for argument's sake) you "had to" put goose-egg knots and a black eye and horrible bruises all over this skinny lady's face in order to "protect yourself?"  That does not make any sense to me.  MAYBE you bruise her arms trying to hold her.  Better yet, stop the car safely and tell her to get out.  If she refuses, you take the nonviolent path.  Call the cops if you have to.

But You Do Not Bash Her Head.

You Do Not Punch Her Face Repeatedly.

And You Do Not Drive Off Dragging Her On The Road. 

That, of course, assumes the best possible scenario for Monteiro. I only know Martin from a brief introduction years ago at a tournament... don't know either of them well at all. I don't know if she instigated any physical contact with him, but if she did, he shouldn't have responded as the photographs reveal he did.  And if she didn't, then his conduct is a million times more reprehensible.

Gracie Barra handled the Yakima rape incident well by "excommunicating" Cristiano Oliveira when he was arrested for raping one of his juvenile students, and Gracie Barra Northwest established wonderful policies to prevent future occurrences and help deal with any that occur despite best practices.

Edited to add: According to Flavio Almeida, Gracie Barra supports survivors of violence and welcomes Martin to train and teach at another location while she waits for resolution of the case and disapproves of Monteiro being permitted to resume participation at the school.