I wish Brazilian jiu jitsu wasn't being used the way it is.
Sexualization of women in jiu jitsu is nothing new... it's been covered pretty thoroughly.
Julia Johansen, who writes the Jiu Jiu BJJ blog, addressed Tukano Kimonos' use of naked women in body paint to advertise their company here. She also discussed the sexy photos of Kyra Gracie in just a gi top.
I agree with her perspective. I tend to think it's great to celebrate a healthy body image, to revel in being fit and attractive, to put yourself out there. BUT I also get really creeped out by the kinds of comments that are made.. I don't like thinking of my training partners saying or thinking things like .. well, we all know the things that are said and thought.
So I tried to stay out of (and not click on) recent articles about a photo shoot done by BJJPIX, William Burkhardt. He shot a sexy series of a female purple belt from California in various stages of undress from her gi.
I wouldn't have pursued it any farther, except a friend recently shared with me some other work of William's that I found startling, weird, disturbing, and creepy.
He shot a promo video "documentary" for a BJJ blackbelt who is also one of those PUA's (pick up artists).
Arash Dibazar runs a women-only fitness studio in San Jose, CA called IMC Academy. That's him on the left. He says he is the only Persian black belt in BJJ, instructed by Sandro "Batata" Santiago, who is under Gordo. It appears he was promoted in 2012.
He also runs a "Survival and Fight" center, apparently only for men, in San Jose.
If you can't make it to the academy to learn "Panjo," the Persian street self-defense system he invented, you can order online lessons.
Here's the "documentary" Burkhardt shot of Dibazar's bizarre ramblings... NSFW. In it, Burkhardt proclaims that Dibazar was the "2013 and 2014 #1 pickup and seduction artist in the world." How is that kind of thing ranked?
I tried to look up something about Panjo, but for four pages on google, it's just stuff about exotic cars or a tiger that was lost and later found. "Panjo martial arts" pulls up only Dibazar.
Here's the thread on Bullshido which covers negative yelp reviews about Dibazar hitting on his female clientele. Later, Dibazar renamed his business and got the negative reviews removed-- but they're immortalized on the Bullshido thread. On the IMC Women's Fitness yelp, read the second review:
"This place was terrible. Arash makes uncomfortable
remarks towards girls. The trainers ripped me off on countless
occasions. Read through the filtered reviews to understand what this
business really is. They created a second yelp account to hide the
crappy reviews. Do not work out here unless you feel like being
harassed. I regret ever coming here."
His response: "Imc
Women's Fitness Center Inc. is a company built from an ethical nature.
Owner, staff and students are welcome to participate in all IMC Academy
events, classes, meetings and any other affiliation in regard to current
standard membership if and only if the individual has proper exchange,
is mentally stable, doesn't participate in drug use (psychiatric or
recreational), expresses healthy emotions, has acute social skills and
an ambitious drive to honestly improve themselves all the way from their
inner beliefs transferred into their physical appearance, and most
importantly, overall carries a positive attitude.
IMC Women's
Fitness Center opened and converted into an Incorporated Establishment
in November of 2012. Hosting several new programs, employees and other
staff members, the business strategies as well as daily business
operations became separate from the prior, IMC Academy. By true nature
of changing the business and business structure a new Yelp Page was
created, as it rightfully should be per the above documented facts. IMC
Women's Fitness Center members are extremely passionate about the value
IMC Owner and Staff continue to provide to all members. It is
recommended you reference each one of the reviewer's public Facebook
accounts to see their daily involvement at IMC Women's Fitness Center as
well as their life changing experiences stemming from their consistent
participation at IMC Women's Fitness Center. IMC Women's Fitness Center
has over twenty-five thousand check-ins on Facebook and every single
member is proud to be apart of such a vicarious movement.
Any
member who chooses to demonstrate unsatisfactory ethics, malicious
behavior, and an erroneous attitude is not permitted to stay a member at
IMC Women's Fitness Center. The environment is packed with women who
are passionately dedicated to achieve their personal bests' in fitness
and their lifestyles everyday! The energy is vibrant, the smiles are
permanent and the instructors and employees understand that it is
crucial to keep the environment as such. You can see that somebody with
ill intentions would not stay in an environment listed above. To
proclaim such slanderous banter towards individuals, who dedicate their
entire lives to bettering the community, is a direct representation of
the erratic bi polar behavior displayed by Heather. Each instructor
spent many hours working with Ms. Heather, unfortunately her volatile,
criminal behavior overtook her membership with IMC. Ms. Heather has
exhibited bi polar behavior and spasmodic communication through her
invalid, desperate attacks on the owner and staff at IMC Women's Fitness
Center. She has requested reviewers from a former irrelevant yelp page
where the business is currently closed to spread devious reviews
attacking the owner and current staff on false pretenses that have
nothing to do with the current business and business operational
standards of IMC Women's Fitness Center. She has posted private photos
on a public forum with volatile intentions. IMC Women's Fitness Center
Owner and Staff are currently in due process to serve Ms. Heather with a
civil harassment restraining order. A cease and desist letter was
directly sent to Ms. Heather no longer than six months ago to interrupt
her slanderous, libel and defamatory behavior. The legal action is taken
to ensure the safety of the staff and current members.
Do not
reference Ms. Heather reviews as a valid opinion. This review is not a
direct representation of the Owner, Instructors, or daily business
operations or regulatory standards of IMC Women's Fitness Center; it is a
slanderous spew of unsatisfactory words spoken from an individual who
holds herself at the lowest of regard. (Entrusted to her criminal
record, bipolar behavior and heinous personal ethics"
Her response: "**In regards to the incredibly inappropriate comment added to my post
by "management" trying to make me seem like a bad person does not and
will not change the fact that my post is full of straightforward
truthful facts. It's quite sad they had to make a new Yelp page to hide
the negative reviews posted here. . Also, to be clear.. I left IMC on my
own and was not "kicked out" or "removed" The IMC trainers ripped me
off beyond belief, I have no "real" criminal history unless you'd
include tickets haha.. nor do I have any "mental issues". Posting such
lies was a really juvenile thing to do. I clearly stated there was a
time I enjoyed working out here but that doesn't change the fact that
things got really crappy after some time. I came to work out not be
insulted, criticized, cheated, lied to and made uncomfortable on a daily
basis."
There are quite a few glowing yelps, and yet... the negative ones, which allege sexual remarks and hitting on young teen women, ring more true. Apparently he invested in a Scientology course. Another thread about Dibazar on MartialArtsPlanet with some hilarious old video. Here's a portion of Dibazar's bio about his pickup skills, which I pulled from here: "Having the confidence of
a champion martial artist, the skills of an expert actor, and a deep
background in Zen Buddhism and body language, Arash had a chance
encounter with the book the "Game" that started him on the path to
meeting Mystery from the Venusian Arts and devoting his energies and
creativity to mastering the art of the pickup. A personal student of the
Master Pickup Artist James Matador, Arash brings to the game a unique
vibe that is extremely impressive and enjoyable to watch. A teacher for
more than 18 years, Arash has a keen instinct for amplifying an
individual's inner game and removing quickly the mental barriers that
prevent men from succeeding in any field. This, coupled with his
extensive understanding of the game, makes for one of the most potent
instructors in the world of pickup today.""
Here's his pickup artistry website: http://www.seductiveinstinct.com/arash-dibazar.html
More silliness: Watch "[BJJ Highlights] Arash Dibazar - Fear No One" on YouTube - https://youtu.be/nRXYL3vXm44
And he has a Gracie Academy logo tattooed on his cheek.
I'm rambling, I guess, but I just want to know... why does a very talented BJJ photographer not see a problem with popularizing this tacky guy? I'm told he did the documentary for free. Why? Dibazar doesn't even know how to pronounce Rafael Mendes' name right... he lets a dog run all over his jiu jitsu academy mats... he has a horrible attitude towards women. Ugh.
what a fucking creep. plus, the only real bjj video of him is a promotional video of him and a blue belt (his student, most likely), that he labeled "bjj highlight."
as a man, i dislike the sexualization of female bjj athletes and MMA athletes. i find it disrespectful of their accomplishments and hard work and distracts from the aspects of these individuals on which we should be focusing.
If Burkhardt is sucking him off then he must be soooooo vegan. Lol
This guy doesn't even know what real beauty is and I just can't trust a "man" who wears eyeliner. What's even sadder is this guy has people who train jiu jitsu under him and probably look up to him. Be an example, not a sideshow.
Wow . . .is this guy actually a real person? It falls into the "too strange to be true" category. I wonder what his Persian Panjo pick up strategies are? Color me curious.... : )
As a fellow Persian that does BJJ I feel ashamed if the allegations towards him are true. As for being the first Persian BJJ BB I doubt it..Gazzy Parman got her Black Belt in 2006 I believe she is the first Persian BJJ BB.
4 comments:
what a fucking creep. plus, the only real bjj video of him is a promotional video of him and a blue belt (his student, most likely), that he labeled "bjj highlight."
as a man, i dislike the sexualization of female bjj athletes and MMA athletes. i find it disrespectful of their accomplishments and hard work and distracts from the aspects of these individuals on which we should be focusing.
If Burkhardt is sucking him off then he must be soooooo vegan. Lol
This guy doesn't even know what real beauty is and I just can't trust a "man" who wears eyeliner. What's even sadder is this guy has people who train jiu jitsu under him and probably look up to him. Be an example, not a sideshow.
Wow . . .is this guy actually a real person? It falls into the "too strange to be true" category. I wonder what his Persian Panjo pick up strategies are? Color me curious.... : )
As a fellow Persian that does BJJ I feel ashamed if the allegations towards him are true. As for being the first Persian BJJ BB I doubt it..Gazzy Parman got her Black Belt in 2006 I believe she is the first Persian BJJ BB.
Post a Comment