Please write a comment and describe your relationship versus BJJ negotiations (if any.) For example: you're single but future relationships will have to accommodate your desired level of training as part of the deal, as Kitsune mentioned... or you're married and can train twice a week, or whatever. Feel free to comment anonymously if that makes you feel better. I would get more out of greater levels of detail or a historical perspective (like, first we agreed on this, then we tried that, now we're looking at this other thing, or one relationship ended over jits, now this one is experiencing issues).
Also I think there's a bug in Blogger right now-- don't freak if the blog tells you your comment is too large or whatever. I am getting multiple multiple copies of your comments and people are emailing them to me, thinking the length is the problem, but they're coming through just fine, and I will approve them all (even the snarky ones that make me want to cry, wink.)
Edit: Pictures from this weekend. Harrison is now 3 lbs 3.5 oz; Ella is 2 lbs 9 oz. Yay!
Here's Ella (sorry it's so dark, obviously flash would disturb them..)
And here's Harrison. We came during a quiet time for them, so the lighting is very subdued with just blue bulbs.